A Leader

What is a leader to you? leader is someone who will lead and go first to every structure of task bestowed unto him and serves as the guiding tool that imposed rules and regulations to follow. We got various kind of leaders, manager at the job; our father as the head of the family, our priest and pastors, political leaders and different leaders in each establishments.

No one is perfect and no one can lead perfectly to the members as well as no one could follow sufficiently. Now i want to know if you become a leader in any way what values and efforts are you going to contribute? In other way around if you become a follower what values and efforts are you going to contribute too? have you picture the world without a good leader and a good follower? i think a big chaos and i do believe it is starting already! its kinda freaking me out. No one likes to be corrected nor accept constructive criticism....am a leader am a manager am the head of this family, am the president of this country........ I CAN NOT BE WRONG follow what i say do not follow what i do or follow both!!!

Let me know feel free to drop some lines and lets learn from it!

Grand child

My husbands first grand child.....mmmm is that mean that his getting old? Her name is Alexandra shes very pretty. I have nothing much to say about her because i only met her once. But shes adorable, i can not wait to have my own child soon...

I know its not that easy but anyways feel tired today. My thoughts is aimlessly wondering it do not come up the way i wan to be.... Good night folks!!!!!!

God Son

Religiously & traditionally speaking god parent is an individual who dearly sponsored of one child's baptism, assisting some guidance of the child's religious beliefs upbringing. The other rule of the god parent is also to help the parents ensure the child's future spiritually, physically, mentally and socially or even act as a foster parent in case something happen to the parents . Numbers of sponsors used to be like one or two but as time goes by & as the modern way evolves the number of sponsor tend to increase as the parent pick for their child's god parent. Now christening is more of religious dedication in which the ceremony involves of naming the child and introducing the chosen godparent. Its one of the best event as a parent to formally name and welcome the child with the family.

My husband was never been a god parent until my home girl picked him as one. He was delighted as i told him about it. Surprisingly he knew his responsibility, i was astounded and feel proud of him. The baby is like 4 month old now, very healthy and handsome. I often talk to his mom over the computer and frequently see him too like when his sleeping, playing & giggling on his baby crib with his tiny feet and fingers moving and even whining for another bottle of milk.. He smartly enjoyed the colors and some pictures in the computer and even having fun of listening to her moms lullaby. Apparently the baby will grow up healthy and smart as his parents are very cautious and watchful. They make sure that the baby's stuff are all safe even the baby bottle for the milk. Recently i learned from my home girl that some bottles has a toxic component that is hazardous to the babies health. Parenting is really not easy it requires good parenting skills, for rearing kids is not just caring some pets. Sometimes i go skeptical of having a baby but learning all of the stuff i claim that i could do it too.The image at the left corner is baby sky very cute and smart isnt it? who have seen a 3 month old dj? first time folks only here.....lol

Friendship

Each of of us has bff as what the new generation described, best friend forever best bud for life etc. But what really meant by friendship? Friendship is build when one give a sincere smile with an open arms that willing to understand more of your weakness and not of your strength, this is the state of knowing people with friendly feeling of intimacy.

Real friends is a friend who accept of what you do not have and not of what you have. A friend who could always say yeah your damn right i made a mistake my bad...... a friend who will always walk in even if everyone walks out and forsaken you. A friend who will always say your pretty even if you look wasted and worn out.

A friend who will shed tears and not only to mirth, who will stay with you through thick and thin... some people quickly claim oh we are best of friends forever, without thinking of some circumstances like some of disagreements and the foundation of it. Best friend best enemy why? merely because they expect of more agreements than disagreements they close their doors without saying sorry because of pride. Remember we even argued to our own siblings how much more to our friends.

Building good rapport to our friend requires deep understanding, to fathom ones differences and weaknesses is not just comprehending an easy test. I would rather say you are my real true friend than best friend, for there are no best of friendship but true and real. Some people measured friendship through length of time knowing by each other but its wrong. Friendship is measured on how deep the foundation it was been. Accordingly friendship is like a plant its not measured on how tall or big the plant it becomes but it is measured on how deep is the root has been grown.

Id rather to be straight forward and outspoken than a phony for holding back will only lead to pretensions, and to make believe and making others believe is almost a sin. I learn a lot of my journey, friendship is for real not for all the best for there is no such perfect relationships but expect some differences. Id rather to call you as a stranger than my enemy for i do not have time to argue and hate people. If you accept my apology then you are my bff lol if not you are history and a stranger... for real friendship do forgives and forget and a learning experience to each other to grow more as an individual.

Good Times

FUN,that is one of biggest three letter words you can find, not long ago twitter was an emotion and tweet was the sound a bird made.No such thing as going to a mall, or listening an ipod. A computer was counting on your fingers,and a little league baseball game was in the street with mr. Jones car being first base, a bucket being second base,third was mr. Jacksons fence, and home was what ever you could find.

The skating rink was the sidewalk around the school,because,that was the only sidewalk in the neighborhood.The skates were separate from the shoes and hooked to your street shoes,later you disassembled the skate and nailed it to a board and you had a skateboard.

Summer nights you caught fireflies and put them in a jar,something you rarely see now.The movie was like a drive in, no cars, you sit in the school playground on the grass and watched an old western and a cartoon. Warm nights, you and your pals got on street corner under the light and thought you were the best singing group in the world. I dont think the kids today would see any of that as fun,but when that's all you have, you made the best of it.Times change,but memories are forever.

There is always time for everything, when you got time to have fun especially to your love ones you need to savor the moment because tomorrow will never be the same. Do not miss the opportunity to laugh and smile for happiness is the strength to our soul as we grow old experience will be build into wisdom the state of being wise towards our actions and our words are remarkably gain & contributed to the rising young minds. This learning experience will help to comprehend each ones struggles, hopes and success to remember and share. Talking to my father in law helps me a lot to fathom deeper of what is life about, it is my opportunity to have this chance. Life is a one shot opportunity so lets make the best of what we could afford to do not only for the benefit of ourselves but for everyone.

Influenced by father in law Paul Cater